What Should You Do If You Don’t Get Social Media?

wwwMany of my local busi­ness clients say that they just don’t get social media. They tell me they just don’t under­stand how using social media is going to get them more business.

And the answer is sim­ple, really. More effec­tive expo­sure, faster.

To really wrap your head around this, it helps to real­ize that behind the search rank­ings, dot coms and email addresses are peo­ple. Why are peo­ple online? Because they want infor­ma­tion, they want to be enter­tained, and they want to connect.

We adver­tise in news­pa­pers, mag­a­zines, on radio, on tele­vi­sion because we want to reach peo­ple who want what we’re sell­ing. The same thing goes for the web. Nowa­days, that mean using social media.

The biggest deal about social media is so big, we often don’t even see it. Sites like Face­book, Stum­ble­Upon, LinkedIn, Deli­cious, Digg, Mixx, Twit­ter and all the oth­ers have one thing in com­mon: they’ve redis­trib­uted power that used to remain in the hands of the few to the hands of the many.

When this hap­pened, a lot of the gate­keep­ers between us and our poten­tial clients and cus­tomers fell away, in a way that allows more dis­course between peo­ple, with­out leav­ing sen­si­tive pri­vate infor­ma­tion exposed.

I can write a blog post about an aspect of what I do with­out reveal­ing the secret for­mula that gets peo­ple to buy from me or hire me. And you can read it or pro­vide feed­back with­out expos­ing your pri­vate infor­ma­tion. For exam­ple, if you send a Twit­ter link about my post, and my blog rec­og­nizes it, you can make a short com­ment with­out even telling me your email address, as you would need to do if you were to com­ment on my site.

And blog­ging and tweet­ing are just two types of social media you can lever­age to ben­e­fit your business.

I know, for some peo­ple this is really scary.

Social­iz­ing online puts you in a weird posi­tion as a busi­ness per­son if you start maneu­ver­ing with­out quite “get­ting” it. You don’t want to be the guy who thought it was okay to put his link on some­one else’s Face­book pro­file and find it removed the next day, and have poten­tially pow­er­ful allies block­ing you because you breached some eti­quette or made a mistake.

You don’t want to end up talk­ing busi­ness too soon, yet you also don’t want to be the per­son who had an oppor­tu­nity to pro­mote them­selves, but saw that it was okay only after their com­peti­tor beat them to it.

I got an email today from a new friend who told me he couldn’t wrap his way around social media. Like in many new social sit­u­a­tions, he didn’t know how to act. If like him, you think you don’t “get” social media, and how it can be used for busi­ness, I think that if you’re like most peo­ple, you’re wrong.

You already get Web 2.0 and Social Media. You just don’t real­ize it. The very fact that you don’t want to “be that guy” means that you’ve fig­ured out that there’s a cer­tain eti­quette to all these new tools, and that they vary from com­mu­nity to community.

Remem­ber how you fig­ured it out offline? You found some­one to help you, some­one who had the results you wanted that you could copy, or you worked it out through trial and error.

Luck­ily, online there are peo­ple who are will­ing to teach you the ropes, so you can skip the trial and error. Now all you need to do is find peo­ple who are where you want to be, and do what they do.

Social media isn’t as hard as you think it is.

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8 Responses to “What Should You Do If You Don’t Get Social Media?”

  1. tinustuff Says:

    NEW: What Should You Do If You Don’t Get Social Media? http://tinyurl.com/ykssa49

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  2. Matt Hanson Says:

    Good writ­ing. Keep up the good work. I just added your RSS feed my Google News Reader..

    Matt Han­son

  3. tinustuff Says:

    NEW: What Should You Do If You Don’t Get Social Media? http://su.pr/22SXRK

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  4. Samuel Says:

    This is so true. Some­times what I find when I talk to small busi­nesses or other pro­fes­sion­als is that they are mis­in­formed by peo­ple who knew very lit­tle about social media and how it works and so they do the wrong things. When it doesn’t work for them they say social media doesn’t work. All because they were mis­in­formed. So your right request­ing the assis­tance of some­one who has good results using social media can be the start of the jour­ney in learn­ing how to use it right way.

  5. SamuelAwosolu Says:

    Good post by @Tinu on what you should do if you don’t get social media. Plz read and RT http://ow.ly/AKWQ

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  6. TommiePowers Says:

    RT @SamuelAwosolu: Good post by @Tinu on what you should do if you don’t get social media. Plz read and RT http://ow.ly/AKWQ

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  8. damongreene Says:

    RT @SamuelAwosolu: Good post by @Tinu on what you should do if you don’t get social media. Plz read and RT http://ow.ly/AKWQ

    This com­ment was orig­i­nally posted on Twit­ter

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